Yesterday, we sat at Simpang Bedok, until 5am in the morning. As per norm, it was the four of us. The night was beautiful, my sis and I were half awake most of the time. Many things were being discussed. Sharing our views on Islam, politics and RELATIONSHIPS. Thus, the debate began and I was agitated at a certain point. Different people have different perspective of life. The way each individual is brought up determines the choice that they make.
Do woman need 110% attention?
No but at a certain extend..... yes which is an ironical answer. Attention is crucial for us...woman. Attention leads to love, care, concern and commitment. Then again, too much attention would add strain to our relationship. As woman mature, we look at things in a different angle. When we put our attention on someone, man misperceives the norms. Learning from my own experiences, and the time in between them, has lead to some very personal concrete conclusions.
We do check on our guys, now and again but there is certain boundary that is not within our reach. At times, they need space to be in their own world. Whatever it is, you will trust your instinct that he will be with you at the end of the road.
There are different types of woman. As expected, confident women differ from those who rely on men to bolster their egos. These are women who act as though men are their personal property. When speaking of her beloved; she arrogantly refers to him as "my man." I am curious as to what qualifies him as her man. It sickens me to see the extent some women go to, to possess a guy. They will even attack other women, if she feels they're infringing on her territory, or trying to put the moves on her man. Ladies, every time we utter the words, "That's My Man," it gives men more credit than they deserve. Men love it when we tell other women they are ours. At one point, can we please reflect on what we have become?
